My Gadget- The Gidget


This is The Gidget, a product that was sold by Pure Romance. It’s discontinued now, but I absolutely LOVE it! It’s my new favorite vibrator, since my Tango by WeVibe died on me. 😥

It takes one AAA battery and has a TON of different settings and it’s just absolutely fabulous! It’s made of a silicone, I believe (or at least it feels like silicone), and it’s soft to the touch and very smooth and just very very nice. 😉 It fits nicely in your hand, in your palm (it’s about the size of a hand), and that notched tip is incredible.

Pure Romance is a company that makes quality products. I wouldn’t have worked for them if they didn’t. That’s why I’m more than happy to buy from them now that I’m not selling myself anymore. I know they’ve come out with more new stuff since I’ve been out of the business and I’m hoping to look into it to potentially see if they have an affordable new comparable vibe that is even better! 😉

This products gets a definite thumbs up from me, that’s for sure! ❤


Written 2014.


The newest toy out by the We-Vibe company is called the Thrill. It’s a toy meant to be used in solo play for women, or used on the woman by her partner. It’s like a new-fangled rabbit, with a clitoral stimulator as well as a g-spot stimulator. It’s like a combination of their Tango bullet and their We-Vibe couple’s toy. It looks a little something like this.


We, meaning all the employees at my store, got one for free, in order to test it out and give our feedback to the company about what we thought of it and what could be improved and what we didn’t like, etc.

I tried mine out the other day and all I have to say is…WOW.

I had my boyfriend use it on me, and it was one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had. He just rocked it back and forth, while it was inside of me, and it was pretty amazing.

When we first got the toy in the store, I was skeptical. I didn’t see how we were going to sell such an expensive item that didn’t even look like it did much or even really worked all that well.

But after trying it out for myself, I’m much more gung-ho about trying to get women to buy this for use with their partners or just by themselves. It’s definitely a must-have for every woman out there. Unlike a rabbit, the clitoral piece is long enough that with the rocking motion, which moves the g-spot part in and out and up and down, the clitoral piece never leaves the clit area and provides constant stimulation, where as with a rabbit, if you thrust in and out with the shaft of the rabbit, you lose the clitoral stimulation from the “rabbit ears”.

Over all I was VERY pleased with my newest toy and look forward to using it more in the future. Oh! And it’s rechargeable! By a magnetic charge. So it’s completely water-proof! 😉


The Thrill gets the Mandy stamp of approval!

And the main reason I post this is because I’m giving one to a friend as a prize for one of my FaceBook parties because she’s just super awesome and I wanted her to come read this and see just HOW awesome it is! 😉

How I Have Sex

I know most of you must be wondering by now how exactly it is that I manage to have sex if sex is so painful for me.

This will be part review of a few products and part informative of a part of my life.

I have to use a lube in order to have sex at all, and our preferred lube of choice is called Uberlube. It’s a silicone based lube that is the highest quality silicone available and is so amazing! It’s silky and slippery and not sticky. It doesn’t stain and you only need a little bit of it. It’s fantastic!

I also need a bullet to stimulate myself clitorially to prepare myself for penetration, and to make sure that my vaginal passage stays open and doesn’t clench down during sex. I also use it as a way to get myself off during sex, as I don’t get off from penetration alone, though it does feel good still and sometimes I feel like I COULD orgasm from it, I just never have.

The bullet I use is called the Tango, made by a company called We-Vibe. It’s a rechargeable expensive bullet, but it’s powerful as all crap and takes 30 minutes to recharge. It too is a freaking life-saver and has made sex so much more easy and bearable and even enjoyable for me.

We also always start with me on top so I can control the depth of penetration and therefore control the amount of pain I experience. Having that control makes the whole thing much less painful and the pain is more bearable knowing I’m the one in charge.

And that’s how this defunct girl has sex. Ta da! 😉